tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36770289.post7593672460018253341..comments2024-01-20T20:11:51.589-07:00Comments on Telling Secrets: Personal Update / Sabbatical ReadingMartihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04492242951732140223noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36770289.post-57240434931623477332010-08-02T22:57:54.737-06:002010-08-02T22:57:54.737-06:00True - I'm proud of us for how we pulled toget...True - I'm proud of us for how we pulled together as a team during that time, Meg. And I actually =like= cooking and housework, though I might not feel the same way if it was some never-ending reality for me as it is for some of my friends on the wife-and-mother track.<br /><br />Never read your Cherie Hubber book; maybe I'll look for it. Although I've been getting what may be the same message from other sources: ("Actually, you're not as messed up as you think!" or, to apply the principle we use cross-culturally to the person in the mirror: I'm not wrong, I'm just different!) <br /><br />No, I don't think isolation is an option. But there may be some new ways to work with others that aren't like what I've experienced up 'til now.Martihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04492242951732140223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36770289.post-80263846456287151872010-08-02T20:02:37.400-06:002010-08-02T20:02:37.400-06:00at least we kept the house clean and helped cook. ...at least we kept the house clean and helped cook. i am glad we learned to do those things since many people seem not to know how.<br /><br />the only self help book i like is:<br />there is nothing wrong with you by cherie hubber. i suppose some others may be useful at times but that is the only one i really LIKE.<br /><br />good luck finding your way. you don't seem like someone who would want to work alone long term. i hope you figure out what you want and find it. i can understand how after 15 years one asks questions..Megan Noelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11855509464903187806noreply@blogger.com